hi! my only other social media is tumblr so my gf says i'll fit in fine here. i'm in my 20s and live in the united states, if you want more info than that then you can read my posts cuz i'm not putting it here (put in some fucking effort to dox me lmao) <3
International Asexuality Day, so I don't know. Am I supposed to do something? Y'all are aware we exist, right? You don't think we're possessed, or liars, right?
You... you do respect us, don't you? Like, as fellow queers, at least? I mean, even if we otherwise present as cis and/or het, you know that asexuals are part of the family, and deserve respect, right? That's real important. Like... you know that it's important to consider us part of the broader queer community, right?
But it’s very easy to push an old lady down to the ground and take one of the doors off the barn and put it on top of her like a sandwich and pile stones on it until she can’t breathe anymore. And that makes all the badness go away. Except that it doesn’t. Because there are other things going on, and other old ladies. And when they run out, there are always old men. Always strangers. There’s always the outsider. And then, perhaps, one day, there’s always you. That’s when the madness stops. When there’s no one left to be mad.
― Terry Pratchett, I Shall Wear Midnight
An important part of communication in any relationship is making gibberish sounds at each other from across the room until one person laughs
What hurts is that I wasn't shocked to learn this; this is a puzzle piece fitting into place. Of course something nefarious was going on. There always is.
